By Fr. John Bartunek, LC, Catholic Exchange - Dear Father John, What are the key characteristics of good spiritual direction?... There are three ways to answer this question, depending on the point of view... From the point of view of the person receiving it, spiritual direction is an extremely useful... help for growing in holiness, which is the same thing as growing in one’s communion with God, which is the same thing as growing in authentic wisdom and happiness. Having a spiritual director is like having a coach ...