Blog by Emily, Total Whine - For some women, this manifests as a decision to leave the workforce to be a Stay-at-Home-Mom (SAHM)... Unfortunately, as women make the best choice for their family, it can give way to something ugly. Women are hit with personal attacks on social media, unkind questions at family gatherings, and judgmental presumptions of strangers, just to name a few. It is incredibly isolating, and makes every SAHM look for camaraderie.