Fr. Mike discusses four signs that your relationship is falling apart, especially when it comes to stonewalling. Stonewalling, as used in the context of this video, is when we refuse to communicate or cooperate with someone.
Psychologist Dr. John Gottman calls it one of the “four horsemen of the apocalypse”, or one of four types of expression that indicate that your relationship is falling apart. The other three are defensiveness, criticism, and contempt.
As Christians, we should always pay attention to the one who is communicating with us. After all, we would expect at least that much from them when communicating with them. Loving someone means seeing them. By seeing, here we mean literally looking them in the eyes when they talk to you, but also understanding them and seeing them as a person made in God’s image.
United States Supreme Court Building, July 21, 2020. This file is licensed under the Creative Commons Attribution 2.0 Generic license. You are free: to share – to copy, distribute and transmit the work .... Source: Wikimedia Commons
Madonna and Child by Sassoferrato (Giovanni Battista Salvi), c. 1650 [Vatican Museum, Room XIV]. The Blessed Virgin is seated on clouds; “her feet resting on the half moon.”
Senator Reverend Warnock Meets with Pope Francis in Vatican City. Senator Reverend Warnock, the Senior Pastor of the historic Ebenezer Baptist Church, met Pope Francis this Saturday during a Papal Audience in Vatican City. Courtesy www.warnock.senate.gov/