The Way, Furrow, The Forge
In his book, The Way, Furrow, The Forge, St Josemaria Escriva lists 17 signs of a lack of humility.
If we’re honest, these 17 signs of a lack of humility are not unfamiliar to us at all because we all exhibit some of them.
If you want to fight a flaw, it’s good to know what they are.
So gird your loins, and here we go!
JoseMaria Escriva’s 17 Signs of a Lack of Humility
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Thinking that what you do or say is better than what others do or say.
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Always wanting to get your own way.
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Arguing when you are not right or — when you are — insisting stubbornly or with bad manners.
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Giving your opinion without being asked for it, when charity does not demand you to do so.
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Despising the point of view of others.
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Not being aware that all the gifts and qualities you have are on loan.
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Not acknowledging that you are unworthy of all honour or esteem, even the ground you are treading on or the things you own.
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Mentioning yourself as an example in conversation.
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Speaking badly about yourself, so that they may form a good opinion of you, or contradict you.
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Making excuses when rebuked.
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Hiding some humiliating faults from your director, so that he may not lose the good opinion he has of you.
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Hearing praise with satisfaction, or being glad that others have spoken well of you.
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Being hurt that others are held in greater esteem than you.
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Refusing to carry out menial tasks.
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Seeking or wanting to be singled out.
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Letting drop words of self-praise in conversation, or words that might show your honesty, your wit or skill, your professional prestige.
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Being ashamed of not having certain possessions.
Cultivating Humility Resources
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