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What to Do When Catholic Teaching Brings Marital Tension, by E. Christian Brugger – Brown Pelican Society of Lousiana

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Bartolomé Esteban Murillo, “The Wedding Feast at Cana,” ca. 1672 (photo: Public Domain)

By E. Christian Brugger, EWTN News, July 19, 2024

E. Christian Brugger E. Christian Brugger is a moral theologian living in Front Royal, Virginia.

 

DIFFICULT MORAL QUESTIONS: How can my spouse and I deal properly with the challenges we face practicing NFP?

E. Christian BruggerQ. We are a Catholic couple married for more than 10 years, practicing natural family planning for health reasons without using contraception. My husband’s frustration with our abstinence periods has led to marital tension and his occasional use of porn, and he has grown resentful of the “Catholic rules” about sexual pleasure and marital intercourse. Though he still agrees with avoiding contraception, he believes mutual manual stimulation during abstinence is legitimate if the purpose of the acts is to foster intimacy between us and make the whole home and family more harmonious. I struggle to find clear guidance in the Catechism on this issue and feel compelled to comply to preserve our marriage and reduce his temptation, despite concerns about its morality. — Anonymous Catholic Woman

A. I admire your faithfulness in following the Church’s teaching for the past 16 years. I also admire your solicitude in seeking advice on a very sensitive topic. …

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