By Anthony Esolen, Cardinal Newman Society - When men and women cannot be trusted with one another, they either hurl themselves headlong into debauchery or they retreat into silence and loneliness... When I defend in public the principle of public decency—or of public morals that protect marriage, the family, and the innocence of children—I must hear that I am a “theocrat,” and that I wish to intrude religion where religion does not belong.