By Darren Geist, First Things - Not only is Butker’s message about the importance of “homemaking” and family life worth hearing, but it also applies as much to men as it does to women. Butker correctly points out that “football” and “business” should not be a “distraction” from being a father and a husband. And this for a simple universal truth: Your family matters far more than your job... My work as an attorney is in a different category than my vocation as a father. For Catholics like Butker and myself, a vocation is not a mere job. It is a calling or mission to serve God in a particular way, and it transforms and remains with us the rest of our lives.