By Julian Kwasniewski, Crisis Magazine - Immodesty is unfair, unhelpful, and wounding to both men and women... modesty is about not sharing with certain people what shouldn’t be shared with them: namely, the intimacy of the body, even on a visual level. Because the exclusive sharing of personhood that the exposed body entails cannot occur except in marriage, the “inner chamber cannot be left open as a public playground” (as my dad puts it).