By Marty Trammell, Rich Rollins, Start Marriage Right - In her recent best-seller, Hi, Anxiety: Life with a Bad Case of Nerves, Kat Kinsman, a self-described “professional anxiousologist,” shares how the happiness in her marriage helps reduce her anxiety and promote peace. Three thousand years ago, the Scriptures presented the same enduring truth: wise couples encourage an atmosphere and attitude of rest.